tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8293594536806592881.post1840496373445523033..comments2023-06-24T06:53:57.851-07:00Comments on ReinhardRites: I'm a Lousy FeministReinhardRiteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07394123844751095822noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8293594536806592881.post-19447446326554100022012-07-23T11:51:11.033-07:002012-07-23T11:51:11.033-07:00ok, if that's what you need to believe, who am...ok, if that's what you need to believe, who am i to say you're wrong? personally, i prefer existentialism -- and poetry, of course! i thought it was worth a try, that's all. you're worth a try. life's too short for excuses.d novahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335357091737770718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8293594536806592881.post-78773166012109240192012-07-22T18:21:16.743-07:002012-07-22T18:21:16.743-07:00Actually, I wasn't guessing about the cheating...Actually, I wasn't guessing about the cheating, the men I chose were rather proud of letting me know that they were seeing other women. Neither realized that their meal ticket was leaving till the last minute but I've learned an important lesson. If you forgive them, they read it as being allowed to come back after sin and would do it again. No regrets, just being honest. But part of the psychology of the men I chose was to tell me about the "Better" women they were seeing.ReinhardRiteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07394123844751095822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8293594536806592881.post-15943751393642441422012-07-22T16:14:28.724-07:002012-07-22T16:14:28.724-07:00in case you didn't hear it, here's a link ...in case you didn't hear it, here's a link to a book review i heard on the radio a few days ago. don't get the wrong idea. i'm not sending it on account of the title but because of the way its last few lines deal with feminism:<br /><br />http://www.npr.org/2012/07/18/156856370/a-little-advice-on-how-to-be-a-womand novahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335357091737770718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8293594536806592881.post-1377514749969247192012-07-22T15:50:56.446-07:002012-07-22T15:50:56.446-07:00good! you've been much too hard on yourself. y...good! you've been much too hard on yourself. you know damn well nobody's perfect, so why keep punishing yourself for being human?<br /><br />interesting that you just said 'they were pursuing other women', because it recently suddenly came to me that you believed that. just popped into my head unbidden. intuition, i guess, that took all this time to coalesce. it's a bit late, but i still want you to know that that particular realization of yours was another human error. it's no fun finding out you've been misjudged, believe me.<br /><br />now forget about it. it doesn't matter anymore. these years haven't been completely wasted, have they? we all have regrets and baggage, but we've had remarkable experiences and learned things of value. that doesn't mean i'm one of those characters who says i wouldn't change anything if i could. if i'd known what i know now, i'd do a lot of things differently. hell, i might even be unfaithful to a woman who thinks i was.<br /><br />but i doubt it.d novahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335357091737770718noreply@blogger.com